Implement configurable system volume following and replace JSON IPC with binary struct.
- New Feature: Introduce `system_volume_following` CLI and runtime option.
- Enhancement: Extend CLI options, reload, and user‑config APIs to propagate the new flag.
- Enhancement: Add `VbxEvent` binary IPC struct and logging macros for better performance.
- Enhancement: Add helper to persist system volume following state.
- Bug Fix: Remove stale `parse_keyboard_event` prototype.